I recently attended a weekend-long seminar and each day was ten hours and filled to the brim with information, exercises, and an incredible amount of will power to shut up my ranting ego of "Been there done that." The irony is that I spent a good part of the first day doing exactly what we … Continue reading Judge? Who, Moi?
Category: Professional Development
For the Service-Minded Humans of the World
For my birthday this past November, I was gifted one of the best experiences of my life by my parents - other than the gift of life by my parents. I took part in Committed Impulse, a weekend-long intensive performance workshop in NYC that had the overall goal of helping actors, entrepreneurs, and public speakers, … Continue reading For the Service-Minded Humans of the World
While You Were Sleeping
Trivia time! How much of our brain activity (decisions, emotions, actions, and behaviors) is conscious? I'm on a mission of taking back control of my mind. Whether it's Mel Robbins asking the question of: Do you own your phone or does your phone own you? or Deepak Chopra reminding me that We are the thinker … Continue reading While You Were Sleeping
How Playing it Cool Fries Your Brain… Tell Me About it, Stud
3 minute read Did you ever notice how the cooler you play it the more stifled you get? The amount of energy that you put into acting like you have it all together, so you don't show that you're unsure or unable fills your brain with such a mega capacity of fear that it's surprising … Continue reading How Playing it Cool Fries Your Brain… Tell Me About it, Stud
The G.E.M. of Making Decisions on Your Own Terms
This is the last post from a three-part series on decision making. If you missed the past two you can find them here: Gold Digging Your Way to Better Decision Making and How Vanilla Ice Helps Me Make Better Decisions. This is a special post as it's in response to a reader's comment of: I … Continue reading The G.E.M. of Making Decisions on Your Own Terms
The Power of Redefining Mistakes
5 minute read How many times have you found yourself chasing after what you thought you wanted only to come to find out that what you really wanted was right in front of you the whole time? Don't blame yourself; I do it too. We can't help but be lured in by the shinier and … Continue reading The Power of Redefining Mistakes
The Question to the Age-Old Question
I had the pleasure of being a part of a career day for a local school district in my area. I also had the honor of giving the closing remarks for the day. Inspired by Simon Sinek's TED talk and philsophy on "Find Your Why", I hope that my thoughts may inspire people of all … Continue reading The Question to the Age-Old Question
The Importance of Being a Perspective Detective
3 minute read It’s anger. It’s sadness. It’s confusion and frustration. When our thoughts and beliefs are questioned or receive any push back, we tighten up, rev up, gear up for the fight. We become uptight and ready to pounce. We will prove them wrong once and for all. We will plow through everything to … Continue reading The Importance of Being a Perspective Detective
How Can Ten Seconds Change Your Day?
1 minute read What would happen if you started each day taking a moment to sit in bed and breathe? Just a few seconds. How different would your day be? How would your first interaction be with your partner? Your kids? Your pets? Your friends? The barista? The guy at the light next to you? … Continue reading How Can Ten Seconds Change Your Day?
The One Book We All Need to Read Right Now
2 minute read I recently gave a talk to a room that was 80% full of male financial advisers. I chose to focus my talk on how the way we "show up" is our choice and why as high achieving leaders it is our duty, not a luxury, to be real and vulnerable. This is … Continue reading The One Book We All Need to Read Right Now